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Compromising the Intent of Inclusion
1. Inclusion, Exclusion, and Bullying
The Chicken Spends Its Whole Life...
The Hawk Spends Its Whole Life...
The Loud Aggressive "Victim" Becomes a Bully
Victim Entitlement to Bully and Intellectual Bullying
Classification Creates Targets for Exclusion
2. The Stress, Frustrate, Fail, Suffer Method and Emotional Intelligence
The First S Is for Stress--Stress 'Em!
The First F Is for Frustration--Frustrate 'Em!
F Is for Failure--Let 'Em Fail! (Make Sure They Fail!)
The Second S Is for Suffer--Let 'Em Suffer
3. Create Powerful and Successful Children
Win So He Would Throw a Tantrum
The Next SS Is for Sensitivity and Support
The Next SS Is for Skills and Strength
SF Is for Survive and Flourish
4. Social Cues
Reasons Individuals Don't Get it!
5. Reasons for Missing Social Cues
Physical Disability--Compensation (No.2 of 11): "What? Huh?"
Cross-Culture Issues--Cross-Culture Education (No. 3 of 11): "So that's what you mean!"
Overstimulation--De-Stress (No. 4 of 11): "I'm tired. I don' wanna have fun!"
Denial--Alleviate Fear (no. 5 of 11): "Nah, nah, nah!"
Anxiety--Stabilize and Secure (No. 6 of 11): "What? Where? Watch out? Where? Now? Oh no!"
Neurosis--Reality Filter or Check (No. 7 of 11): "That was then, and this is then."
Dissassociation--Trauma Work (No. 8 of 11): "Click...This station is no longer broadcasting...or receiving."
Learning Dissabilities--Compensation (No. 9 of 11): "Trying hard, harder, and harder..."
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (and Attention Deficit Disorder)--Focus (No. 10 of 11): "Attention wanders..."
Intoxication and Substance Abuse--Sobriety (No. 11 of 11): "Common adverse effects..."
6. The Victim Dynamic
Why Do You Pick Up Crying Babies?
Reversing the Dual Theory of Frailty
7. Creating Bullies
A Blustering, Browbeating Person
Bullies, Aggression, and the Search for Self-Esteem
"Who Are you Looking At!?"
8. Relational Aggression
"You Can't Come to My Birthday Party"
9. Frustration to Resentment to Aggresstion
Bullies With Learning Disabilities
10. Arrogance and Entitlement
Bullies With Asperger Syndrome
Bullies With Gifted Abilities
11. Motivation and Survival
Adult Stress, Frustration, Failure (and Suffering)
Cultural Characteristics of Children With Challenges
The Ninety-Second-a-Day Self-Esteem Prescription Plan